The relationship between a man and a woman does not end with the death of one of them, where we encounter many marital relationships that end after years of marriage or before the completion of the marriage process fully, and reveal the period of engagement between men and women each other's personalities, To be aware of his personality and fiancé and thinking and printing and many other things to be able to reach a crucial decision is either acceptance or rejection of any kind of relationship between them, and also test the man's partner in the engagement to find out whether it is suitable for him or not, and may face men Or women have some signs that may foreshadow that zoah Will be the title of their relationship failed, so on both partners not to rush to get married if they feel that there are some early signs that indicate the failure of the marriage.

Signs of failed marriage

Familiar wedding signs that indicate that the relationship is impossible can be identified by:

Lack of interest in the feelings of the other party:

Men and women do not have to complete wedding and marriage ceremonies if one of them feels they are not interested in the other. For example, Christine Smith of Virginia says she has suffered so much from her husband's lack of interest in her. He has always been preoccupied with her. She continued to say that she had repeatedly cried for neglecting her husband without paying attention to her tears or complaints, which led her to think repeatedly about divorce.

Stop partner support:

One of the couples says that the point of difference is the moment that his wife stopped supporting him. Joseph continues that his wife begins to blame him whenever he tries to talk to her about it, which led him to stop communicating with her as before, and then stop spending Interesting 

Times with each other.

Continuing Complaint: -
They say that make sure that you start up so that your end does not hurt. So it is the case before and after marriage. Both partners start to get married at the beginning of their marriage, and then things start to change day by day. For example, Tiffany remembers that at the beginning of her marriage To her husband three times to tell him how much she loved him and thought about him, but then she became overwhelmed with household matters and household repairs, and then became a constant complaint to my husband, which eventually led to the deterioration of our relationship. , And this does not mean that the wife should not complain to her husband what bothers you The attention so as not to go overboard 

In her complaint.

Low priorities:
The relationship between husband and wife deteriorates when she feels that it is not his priority. Many men are interested in achieving his ambition and goals without placing women in his priorities.

Controversy over small things: -

Both spouses realize that there is something wrong with their marital relationship when their argument is based on the smallest things. For example, Tiffany says that her young children love to drink bottled water, which always leads to controversy because he sees it as a waste of money.

Making excuses to avoid going home early: -

Some women complain about the absence of her husband who is out of the house. He is always preoccupied with work and spending time with his friends, which makes the woman feel that her husband does not love her and he cares about her. Especially since the woman is waiting for her husband to return home so that she does not feel alone.

Bad mood: -

The problem in marital relations is the difference between men's treatment of women after marriage. The man waits during the engagement period for many things that are bothering him if she sees her as a lover and is obliged to talk to her at night and day. But once a man marries a woman, To his wife, his anger increases at all times, and turns to the querulous man who checks on the slightest and the smallest things that strained the relationship between them and lead to the failure of their relationship.

There are many changes that take place between the couple after childbearing. After the couple lived life to their full potential, they enjoy going to the cinema or theater or playing their common hobbies or traveling to new places to discover their lives become focused on children and work, Their lives, and they are in a closed circle they can not get out of, and it is only limited to talk for a few periods about family affairs or visiting relatives.

No one denies that procreation is the greatest yes of life, which can not be compensated by anything else, but just as paternity changes in individual personalities, it also changes the relationship between couples and leaves a clear impact on them. The nature of life changes in general and the interests and priorities of the couple change in particular .

1. Negotiation

At the beginning of the marriage stage, couples often agree or share important and simple decisions, such as choosing a summer vacation spot, a mother's day gift or changing a car. Even if one is not convinced, the other tries to please and talk to him until reaching the desired decision in it.

After giving birth and passing through many years, the couple loses the ability to negotiate and differ in most things, even the simplest. For example, planning a weekend is difficult, they never agree, he wants something and wants something else, and the children want something else.

2. Leisure times

Always, the couple starts their lives, each trying to satisfy the other and making a lot of effort to make him happy. For example, most of the newlyweds spend the day sleeping until noon, then eat food, watch television, and spend the evening at home or outside.

In times of entertainment, they always try to find something new, like going to a party or going out with friends. Usually these friends are also without children, because those with children do not have the right time to go out and it is difficult to coordinate with them to meet them.

After childbearing, it's time to spend time enjoying friends' birthday parties, performing a children's school activity or watching a cartoon movie with them. These are fun when the family meets them, but often the mother is the co-parent. He chooses other means, away from the family atmosphere to enjoy the leisure time.

3. Dialogue and discussion

At the beginning of the marriage, the couple enjoys talking to each other, discussing many things and talking about everything from political discussions to commenting on the latest popular songs, discussing work and home problems as well.

But after childbearing, it may reach the lack of dialogue from the basis of only some of the conversations about the requirements of children and the home or complain wife to the husband not to examine their son well or cross the husband angrily not to feel the cleanliness of the house and so on.

4. Romance

One of the most important aspects of a marriage is maintaining the romantic relationship between the couple. The romantic relationship and the emotional moments soon end. At the beginning of the marriage, romance is at its peak. They prefer to spend time together in a romantic dinner in a restaurant or night On candle lights.

As the years go by, there are few emotional moments that make romance, such as momentary handshake when watching a movie, before children cry for their desire to go to the bathroom, take one of their favorite dishes together, or steal an hour to become alone after a child's sleep .

5. Love

In the past, the wife loved her husband, but now she loves the father of her children, who is involved in this adventure called "parenting". She has become loving him differently when she sees him. Their children, play with them, care about their affairs, and work hard to provide them with good living.

This is not the worst, since the basis of married life is understanding, affection, participation and respect. The couple must try to preserve these principles, So that their marital relationship remains good and continuous and does not turn into an undesirable path.

The world's most famous marriage advisers have agreed on a list of some of the bad habits of husbands, which may be a major cause of the destruction of their marriage.

Try changing the other:

Do not build hopes in changing your partner after marriage, and make your effort to accept your partner, just as he does with you. Whatever you do, you are two different personalities in the end, and no one changes easily. If you change, it will be his will, not the result of pressure from his partner. , This habit of the most common habits that cause failure in the understanding and harmony between the spouses, End.

Refraining from intimacy as a means of punishing the other:

This is why it is a catastrophic reason, and often many women resort to it to try to pressure their husbands when a problem occurs between them. Even if the husband responds once or twice, he will not respond again, and the relationship between you will turn into a state of apathy. , Put intimacy away from any problem, even if you are not in a position to allow yourself to be with your partner, do not use it to come to you and end the problem.

Giving smartphones (mobile, tablet, or laptop) more importance than your partner:

And here comes the habit of most men in our time, most of their time at home carrying their smart phones and busy anything away from the wife and children, and this is one of the biggest reasons for the anger of wives and the constant complaint of their husband's lack of interest in them and children also, there is no justification at all if The wife is preoccupied with the children to pay attention to her husband to his smart phone, but it is her participation in raising children and bear some of the responsibilities, and this will be a key factor in strengthening the marital relationship.

Reply the blame in a ridiculous way:

"You did not call Papa and Mama for a long time," says the husband. "You also did not call Mama only once for a month." Blum's similar accusation makes your wife or husband unwilling to blame you for something. Again, that is, he has become indifferent to your actions, and this is the first path of frivolity between the couple, and can arrive to destroy the love and affection in their hearts.

In anger .. Do not try to solve the problem:

Many couples fall into this trap. When a problem occurs between them, one of the parties tries to solve the problem immediately, while they are angry at each other. Of course, this will only come with more anger and discontent on the other side. Neither side can solve the problem this way.

When there is a big problem between you, you have to stay away until you calm down and continue talking after a while.

Do not take responsibility for your mistakes:

When you sin against your partner, recognize your mistake and do not take you arrogance or arrogance, away from the culture of apology and recognition, as is the case for your partner. Marital life is tight and attractive, and can not be based on the concession of one party only.

Comparison:

The comparison begins when one of the parties refuses to do the other. For example, when a husband is dissatisfied with his wife's way of spending money, he compares it to one of his relatives or mother, and this way of rejecting your partner's behavior is the shortest way to marital failure.

Do not compare your husband to anyone else, nor compare your wife to anyone.

Stop the quarrel:

Yes, what you read is true. When the couple stops quarreling, the relationship between them dies slowly. There are no identical couples, so there is no disagreement between them. Rather, stopping the discussions and arguments is the biggest evidence of a cold in the relationship and the indifference of the parties to each other. It matters what the other party does!