Finding out that there is another woman can be a really big blow. Many women though will dismiss it as a passing fling and will comfort themselves saying it is you he loves and he comes back home to you not her. Well if you are comfortable rationalizing the whole affair that way, well go ahead, but if you would like to know just how serious this affair is, you can look out for some tale tell signs that he loves the other woman.

Of course the simplest thing would be to ask the question bluntly and hope you will get an honest answer, but like most things in life, it never is that simple so you need to read between the lines and you will find the answer.

Watch his reaction when you ask him about it

Well you are likely to get a lie when you ask the question, but the thing is body language can be very truthful, unless he is a trained Russian spy who knows how to get his entire mind and body to tell the same lie. When most people tell lies, they try to avoid eye contact, even if it is for a split second. Interrogators usually watch to see which direction a person looks before they answer a question. If they look up, they are trying to remember, if they look down and to the side, they are thinking or making up an answer and if they look straight into your eyes, it usually is the truth especially if it is a yes or know question.

He avoids spending quality time with you

You may start to notice that the amount of time he spends around you is constantly diminishing. You probably only spend time together when it is unavoidable. Even when he is at home with you, he still seems like he is longing to be somewhere else. This however cold also be the case with a man who is so into his work, but such a man will sacrifice time to be with you as opposed to avoiding being with you, this is because the love he has for the other woman makes him feel guilty being around you, now his mind is slowly believing that he is cheating on her and not you.

He no longer has appetite

There is one thing about a man in love, he will always enjoy the food of the one he loves. Yes even if you are a terrible cook, he will pretend to enjoy the food. When he falls in love with someone else though, he is going to start loving her food. Even mothers with sons will tell you that they noticed their son wasn’t eating as much of her food when he got a girlfriend. The way to a man’s heart is his stomach and if your man is no longer granting you access to his stomach, he probably has someone else that is doing that and he is in love with her.

It's not just sex

Most cheating men are really just looking for sex, but when they fall in love with that other woman, the relationship becomes much more than just sex. You might find them seated on a park bench just watching the world go by and they are really happy. They go out on dates that have nothing physical but everything emotional attached to them. This is also why he will be avoiding quality time with you, he would rather spend that time with her. He could even come home and have sex with you in the night but the greater part of the day is spent with her.

He shares good news with her first

A person cannot maintain the same level of excitement as they tell different people about something that excites them. From the way he tells you what he considers good news, you should be able to know if he must have shared this news with someone else before you. If for example he got a promotion he had been dying for but he lets you know about this as a by the way, he obviously told her first much earlier and now the excitement is subdued as he tells you, he even does not see the need to share such a huge part of his life with you because he is wishing it was her in his life and not you.

He is mean to you at every opportunity he gets

A man trying to justify his feelings for someone else is always going to look for fault. Any small thing you do is going to be magnified and can turn into a huge argument. He knows he is in the wrong but he would like to feel better about the wrong he is doing so he will look for fault in you. This is also an opportunity for him to match out of the house and into the hands of the other woman, while you are still boiling from the argument that seemed to have emerged from nowhere, he can spend the night with the other woman whom he loves.

Unexplained happiness

In some cases, instead of the unexpected fights, he will seem inexplicably happy. You know you did not do anything to make him happy, but somehow he went into the garage with his phone and came back visibly happy and he cannot give you a clear reason for that. If your man has not secretly started smoking weed, then that smile that pops up every now and then is being triggered by the other woman.

It is important though to understand that now always are these signs going to mean that he is in love with her and according to most relationship experts, he only thinks he is in love with her but when reality sets in, he will know better, so do not beat yourself up about it, the fact that he has not asked for a divorce or put an end to your relationship shows that what he has with her is not as solid as what you have with him.

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I regularly get notification from spouse she disclose to me that she is anxious about the possibility that that here husband is no longer physically or explicitly attracted to here any longer. I regularly hear comments like: "I speculate that he's simply never again attracted to me. He never truly compliments me or truly takes a gander at me. He's not as loving as he used to be. How would I know whether he considers me to be ugly or if something else is going on?" 

There are sometimes signs that may demonstrate that your husband isn't as attracted to you as he used to be or that, for reasons unknown, he isn't attracted to you at this moment. I will talk about some of these signs in the accompanying article and in addition examine why sometimes, these signs can show something else. 



Some Signs That Your Husband Isn't Attracted To You Anymore: Very couple of women reveal to me that their husband never acted physically attracted to them. For the most part, there was a great deal of science right off the bat, and after that over the long run the practices which showed the flashes start to change. Obviously, what is beneath won't be a comprehensive rundown. Each one is extraordinary. However, here are some practices that you will regularly observe when fascination is beginning to melt away. 

The Physical Affection Goes Cold: Men are frequently attracted to visual incitement. What's more, a great part of the time, women react more to enthusiastic incitement. That is the reason men sometimes discover things like unmentionables fundamental while women aren't put resources into it very to such an extent. What's more, when something satisfies a man outwardly, he will frequently line that up with physical practices. When he notices that your appearance or nearness inspires a response, he will take this further and embrace you, connect with you, brush your arm, and so forth. 

As it were, he will immediately need to interface with you on a physical dimension because of what he's seeing or encountering. This is normally evident notwithstanding when you are occupied and focused. It just takes a couple of moments to compliment or connect with someone. What's more, regardless of whether your husband isn't decisive, you'll frequently observe his thankfulness and fascination in his eyes, non-verbal communication, or the looks all over. 

He's Avoiding Focused Time Alone Together: People who are profoundly enamored, associated, and attracted to one another regularly have no motivation to keep away from each other and will for the most part endeavor to cut out time to be separated from everyone else and interface. In any case, when one of the mates never again desires this because of an absence of love, at that point they will frequently make an endeavor to maintain a strategic distance from the whole procedure. 

They may disclose to you that they need to work late, have different commitments, or are "worn out." Whatever reason they give you, they'll make an endeavor to stay away from one on one time, particularly on the off chance that they realize you will raise or follow up on your doubts. What's more, sometimes when you are as one in the way that I've recently portrayed, you'll notice that they are very awkward, oppose eye to eye connection or move wildly. To put it plainly, you will simply notice some distress or get the inclination that something is "off." 

He May Try To Tell You That He's 'Agreeable' Rather Than Being No Longer Attracted To You: Most women in this circumstance have an instinctive inclination that something is off. It's extremely agonizing to imagine that your husband isn't physically attracted to you, yet the signs can be hard to disregard. In this way, numerous spouses will stand up to their husbands about this. Some will simply come appropriate out and inquire as to whether regardless he discovers them satisfying. Furthermore, frequently, the husbands will disclose to them that he is, however that he's simply become "agreeable" and in this manner isn't as definite. 

You may hear comments like "we've been hitched quite a while now. Do you anticipate that me should at present act like a young person. We're hitched. I'm clearly dedicated to you. What more do you need?" Sometimes, men adopt this strategy since they truly would prefer not to dive profoundly into their emotions or they would prefer not to hurt yours. 

What To Do If You Think Your Husband Isn't Attracted To You: Many spouses in this circumstance start to feel gravely about themselves and make a wide range of suppositions about "releasing themselves" or being "appalling." And many will think about rolling out exceptionally radical improvements. Kindly don't pummel yourself. What's more, if it's not too much trouble comprehend that there is more that goes into fascination than the manner in which that you look. 

Truth be told, when I exchange with men on this point, I quite often notice that looks aren't generally what they center in around the most. Many will depict association, consideration, certainty, and thankfulness as similarly critical. Actually, when a man discloses to me that he never again discovers his better half appealing, you can quite often likewise find that there is an absence of association in the relationship that came before he began to feel along these lines. 

Individuals who feel neglected or not associated with their life partner will regularly react by "dropping out of affection" or not seeing their life partner as physically appealing. In this way, before you blame your appearance, investigate the condition of your relationship. Since as far as I can tell, if a man feels adored, comprehended, upheld and increased in value by his better half, he will regularly consider her to be an excellent individual both all around regardless of whether her physical appearance is not quite the same as it was the point at which they initially met. 

At the point when my husband started pulling back love and seemed never again attracted to me, I didn't give careful consideration and it nearly cost me my marriage. I didn't comprehend these standards and I approached changing this in totally the incorrect way. I stooped to negative conduct that just pushed my husband further away. Fortunately, I before long understood my mix-up and chose to approach things from another edge and this in the end worked exceptionally well.

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YOUR MAN'S WANDERING EYES

Let's be honest. The more you stick in a relationship, the more blunt it moves toward becoming. It doesn't make a difference that you're seeing Megan Fox or dating Salma Hayek. They can have the longest legs, most attractive skin, bluest eyes and most dazzling identities. Truth be told, your wife might be the most sweltering young lady on earth. That won't stop the inevitable: in the long run, you'll bore each other to death. 

The reason is basic. Individuals like assortment. People like experiencing new things and that goes for connections. Has your relationship plumbed the profundities of weariness? Do despite everything you get excited when you're lying exposed beside one another? Or then again would you rather read the Wall Street Journal? Try not to worry. It's anything but difficult to start a roaring flame and get your wife wet and horny for you. Attempt the following tips! 

Find Your Woman Napping Do something radically strange, ideally in broad daylight. Suppose you're lining up at the cinema and she's itching to see the film. Prior to it's your swing to enter, significantly lift her up and convey her to her seat in the same way recently marries cross the edge. She will be enchanted at the consideration and your activity will effectively start up the old sentiment. The more open your showcase of love, the more basic the feelings you will stimulate. 

Speak profanely But With Respect Your wife won't let it be known, however she may have dreams of being violated by that tall, dull and great looking maverick. You might be a long way from the villainous hoodlum, yet you can fill the role. Accept open doors to murmur lines like "In the event that you Can Imagine What I'm thinking of now" during innocent minutes like ironing the clothes or washing the dishes. Couple it with suggestive looks and looks at prohibited zones to accentuate the message. Do this at irregular for the duration of the day to get her imagination spinning. Her pure contemplations will swing to desire and take the relationship to a boiling pitch. 

Touch Like Your Life Depended On It One thing ladies wished men accomplished more was to touch them. Many ladies are predominantly kinesthetic. They blossom with human touch and loll in the gleam of closeness. Men with their machismo aren't so touchy. They feel it an indication of shortcoming (aside from when they cop free feels). Show your wife dislike other men. Show her you're touchy and caring by touching her every now and again. Guide her to seats. Bolster her back as she enters the elevator. Stroke her scruff when she's focused. Play footsie under the table. Furthermore, the vast majority of all... give her that comforting shoulder when she's forlorn. She'll cherish you for it. 

Make Her Jealous Know why precious stones are so profitable? This is on the grounds that they're uncommon! In case you're generally there for her, you'll be about as important as a container of spam. Limit your time with her. It might require some exertion, yet apply the will to turn down a portion of her invitations. Go out with your companions. Seek after a few leisure activities and set up some new undertakings. When she sees that you're occupied and a determined worker, her impression of you will increase! 

Ooze the Alpha Male Aura Alpha guys are the top mutts. The serious canons. In the event that you've assumed the job of Clark Kent or Peewee Herman the previous 2 years of your relationship, odds are, your wife finds you as exciting as a mole extraction. Overhaul your picture. Swagger with smooth certainty. Involve more space by standing with feet bear width separated. Move gradually however with estimated pace. Work on unwavering eye contact. These are the idiosyncrasies of alpha guys and they're ensured to get her thinking of you in not exactly innocent ways. 

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In most cases, spouses ignore the signs of discontent and complaints from their partners until when the relationship is just about to end. As a result, most spouses are shocked when their partner suddenly announces that he/she wants to end the relationship, is moving out, or has already filed for divorce. Suddenly, you may panic and feel needy in front of your partner. However, this only makes things worse because you appear desperate and weak. Is there any way of getting our partner back at this last ditch point? Here are some effective tips on how to re attract your partner back fast.

1. Take some time to calm down

After breaking up with your spouse you may feel quite bad, but you need some time to clear out your head in order to regain control of your emotions before doing anything. On the other hand, your spouse might be angry, confused, and grieving after the breakup. Therefore, you need to know when to contact your ex and resist the urge to text, call, or visit too often since they may become resistant. When you give your partner enough time to reflect, most probably they will have a different perspective about your relationship.

2. Listen to your partner

Differences are often irreconcilable when married couples are not willing to listen to each other. Therefore, instead of insisting on stating your case, give your spouse the chance to talk and pay close attention to what s/he has to say. Showing your partner that you are truly willing to listen is a clear indication that you want to save your relationship. Even if you don't agree, listen keenly and try to understand without invalidating their feelings. It is very important to realize that these are the feelings the person you love harbors. On the other hand, listening is a good way to read the wants and emotions of your partner through speech and body language while acting accordingly.

3. Do not blame anyone for your breakup

You must understand that nobody is to blame for ending the relationship, sometimes things just do not go as planned. Blaming anyone or anything will just hold you from getting back together with our partner. When you ex sees that you are stable, will make them want to be with you and regard you seriously.

4. Be flexible

If you truly want to re attract your partner back, avoid issuing mandates at all costs. You cannot scare your partner into returning. Relationships end because spouses are unsatisfied with some aspects of the relationship. In order to rebuild the important bridge of communication, you need to meet halfway by being available. After all, nobody wants to be involved with someone who is always busy. However, being flexible and available does not mean conceding to every demand.

5. Act confidently: display your strength

Your partner fell in love with a balanced and happy person who could easily fulfill his/her emotional needs. Even though it is understandable you are sad and unhappy because your spouse is pulling away from you, if you cling and desperately hang on, you appear more unhappy and undesirable. Nobody wants to be around a clingy person. If you are fun, attentive and friendly, s/he will want to spend some time with you and s/he will slowly but surely gravitate back to you. A strong man or woman is more attractive than a desperate person. This shows your spouse that you will survive either way since it will be clear that you are not trying to re attract your partner back simply because you needy weakling who can't make it without them. However, you must try your best not to be arrogant since this may actually push your spouse further away and also frustrate your genuine effort. Be the person you spouse fell in love with.

6. Reflect

In most cases, break ups and divorces are an accumulation of several major and minor marital disputes, which have not been addressed and effectively resolved ever since they arose. This can be a behavior that your spouse cannot tolerate anymore. Beak ups can also occur because of a specific event. Regardless of the cause, you need to take some time to gently reflect on your relationship or marital life and things that have been going wrong. When your partner starts opening up, acknowledge your mistakes and shortcomings. It is vital for spouses not to be self centered or biased when airing their concerns. Although, there are various things you might have done to avoid this situation, this is not the best time to regret your mistakes it is the best time to figure out the specific problems in your relationship and understand your mistakes.

7. Establish a common ground and address your physical and emotional needs

If an argument starts and your spouse says that you do not care about what s/he wants, drop the issue at hand and let them genuinely know that you started the relationship primarily because you want both of you to be happy. Once you fully understand each other's genuine desires and needs, find effective means of addressing them in order for your spouse to feel loved and appreciated in a more sensible way. If you are willing to re attract your partner back, be sure to show genuine effort in addressing the concerns aired by your spouse.

8. Discuss your future

Pretending that there are no problems in your relationship will not make them disappear. Everyone has his or her own unique plans and expectations. You need to find ways of acknowledging and accommodating each other's unique future goals and differences in a sensible way. Make some time to speak with your spouse openly and lay all your differences and problems on the table. Communicate your feelings calmly and let them know that you want them to stay with you.

9. Be honest and faithful

When you are honest, you will get honesty in return. Moreover, respect and honesty always go hand in hand. However, you have to prepare yourself emotionally and know how you will respond and react to possible answers from your spouse from the start. Remind them that you made a commitment to each other and let them know that you care about your relationship by clearly showing your willingness to rebuild the strong bond. Getting your partner back takes the courage to bring up and tackle any problems as soon as they arise in order to avoid worse consequences.

Infidelity is one of the most common causes of divorce. Besides being honest with each other, spouses should always remain faithful because the relationship is a long-term solemn commitment to your partner.

10. Reignite the old feelings

Be yourself; you need to be exactly the person your spouse fell in love with in the first place. Therefore, you need to take care of your body and dress in a way that your partner loves. Making yourself more appealing will also improves the chances of getting you partner back. Indulging in activities that you both love will remind your partner of how it used to be with you. Bringing back the good old feelings also helps to reignite your relationship. This helps you build a harmonious mental relationship with our partner and hence emotional closeness and mutual trust.

11. Be open and ready to change

After reflecting on what has been troubling your relationship, agree and endeavor to make the necessary changes in your interaction and routines. Although you will try your best, it is important to understand that change is a process that takes time and getting used to change takes time. However, things that should have been done differently should not be repeated.

12. Learn how to handle failures and disappointments

It is very important for couples to understand all their imperfections and limitations in the relationship. Expressing anger is quite normal; however, it is vital to learn how to control emotion and your immediate reaction in order to avoid reacting inappropriately. Most minor problems escalate when spouses overreact or become defensive even when they truly know what is their partner is saying is true.

13. Do things together

Connecting with your partner lovingly increases the chances of marital success. In order to create a strong and long-lasting bond with your spouse, you should always find the time to do fun and exciting things together. Whether it is bowling, dancing, scuba diving, skiing or playing cards, always ensure that you enjoy at least one activity together every week. In case you have kids, ensure that at least half of the activities are for you and your partner only. The exclusive time together helps you to reconnect and understand each other's feelings.

14. Take care of your physical self

Sometimes after the breakup you might you might want to just sit at home watching TV or playing video games all day. However, this will neither bring her back nor make you feel better. On the other hand, you might have gotten too comfortable around your spouse that you forgot to take care of your physical self. Besides making you more attractive, working out, taking care of your diet and playing a sport you like not only takes care of your mental health but it also makes you happier. Moreover, this is a chance to hang out with new and old friends, which gives you attraction points especially in your partner's eyes.

15. Be friends with your spouse

Success in friendship is key to happiness in your relationship or marriage. If true friendship is successfully established within your relationship, it is a strong indication that you can stay together and your relationship can still work. Some vital aspects in this kind of friendship include demonstrating affection, genuine respect for each other, knowing each other very intimately, and genuinely enjoying time spent together.

16. Don't try to make you ex jealous

Even as you try not to look desperate, you still want your partner to know that you still value the relationship. However, trying to make him/her jealous shows that you have already moved on and they should do also do the same. Display confidence without seeming desperate and needy in order for your partner to realize that despite your differences and/or fights you were great together. Both men and women are more attracted to strong, interesting, and funny people than to weak and submissive people.

17. Find a new activity to focus on

When you focus your attention on new activities, you will have less time to reminisce the past and miss you partner. You will definitely feel stronger as you regain control of your life. Moreover, when you finally meet your partner, you will appear happier and more confident as you talk about casual things at the beginning of your meeting simply because your mind has been occupied by new activities. Hopefully, your partner might even get curious and get second thoughts about your past relationship. Developing other forms of entertainment will also make your relationship exciting when you get back your partner.

18. Don't panic when your partner starts seeing someone else

Sometimes your partner might start seeing someone else immediately after the breakup and this can be very tough to bear especially if you are still obsessing over him/her. However, most relationships that start soon after break ups are normally rebound relationships. The faster a rebound relationship moves, the faster it ends mainly because most people rush into such relationships just to realize it was not the right relationship. However, trying to convince your partner that this is not the right relationship for them will only make them want it more. Moreover, they might even make it last longer in order to prove you wrong. Avoid giving your opinion about the relationship and concentrate on your life. Do not freak out and call your partner since you will only end up making a fool of yourself.

Clearly, getting your partner is not impossible. However, you must be ready and willing to make the necessary effort to solve things as soon as possible. These strategies on how to get your partner will definitely help you in your quest, but you must be flexible and continue adapting to the situation. In order to get a strong start, skip the moping, soothe the shock, and make a strong action plan depending on the reaction and response you get from your partner.

The relationship between a man and a woman does not end with the death of one of them, where we encounter many marital relationships that end after years of marriage or before the completion of the marriage process fully, and reveal the period of engagement between men and women each other's personalities, To be aware of his personality and fiancé and thinking and printing and many other things to be able to reach a crucial decision is either acceptance or rejection of any kind of relationship between them, and also test the man's partner in the engagement to find out whether it is suitable for him or not, and may face men Or women have some signs that may foreshadow that zoah Will be the title of their relationship failed, so on both partners not to rush to get married if they feel that there are some early signs that indicate the failure of the marriage.

Signs of failed marriage

Familiar wedding signs that indicate that the relationship is impossible can be identified by:

Lack of interest in the feelings of the other party:

Men and women do not have to complete wedding and marriage ceremonies if one of them feels they are not interested in the other. For example, Christine Smith of Virginia says she has suffered so much from her husband's lack of interest in her. He has always been preoccupied with her. She continued to say that she had repeatedly cried for neglecting her husband without paying attention to her tears or complaints, which led her to think repeatedly about divorce.

Stop partner support:

One of the couples says that the point of difference is the moment that his wife stopped supporting him. Joseph continues that his wife begins to blame him whenever he tries to talk to her about it, which led him to stop communicating with her as before, and then stop spending Interesting 

Times with each other.

Continuing Complaint: -
They say that make sure that you start up so that your end does not hurt. So it is the case before and after marriage. Both partners start to get married at the beginning of their marriage, and then things start to change day by day. For example, Tiffany remembers that at the beginning of her marriage To her husband three times to tell him how much she loved him and thought about him, but then she became overwhelmed with household matters and household repairs, and then became a constant complaint to my husband, which eventually led to the deterioration of our relationship. , And this does not mean that the wife should not complain to her husband what bothers you The attention so as not to go overboard 

In her complaint.

Low priorities:
The relationship between husband and wife deteriorates when she feels that it is not his priority. Many men are interested in achieving his ambition and goals without placing women in his priorities.

Controversy over small things: -

Both spouses realize that there is something wrong with their marital relationship when their argument is based on the smallest things. For example, Tiffany says that her young children love to drink bottled water, which always leads to controversy because he sees it as a waste of money.

Making excuses to avoid going home early: -

Some women complain about the absence of her husband who is out of the house. He is always preoccupied with work and spending time with his friends, which makes the woman feel that her husband does not love her and he cares about her. Especially since the woman is waiting for her husband to return home so that she does not feel alone.

Bad mood: -

The problem in marital relations is the difference between men's treatment of women after marriage. The man waits during the engagement period for many things that are bothering him if she sees her as a lover and is obliged to talk to her at night and day. But once a man marries a woman, To his wife, his anger increases at all times, and turns to the querulous man who checks on the slightest and the smallest things that strained the relationship between them and lead to the failure of their relationship.

There are many changes that take place between the couple after childbearing. After the couple lived life to their full potential, they enjoy going to the cinema or theater or playing their common hobbies or traveling to new places to discover their lives become focused on children and work, Their lives, and they are in a closed circle they can not get out of, and it is only limited to talk for a few periods about family affairs or visiting relatives.

No one denies that procreation is the greatest yes of life, which can not be compensated by anything else, but just as paternity changes in individual personalities, it also changes the relationship between couples and leaves a clear impact on them. The nature of life changes in general and the interests and priorities of the couple change in particular .

1. Negotiation

At the beginning of the marriage stage, couples often agree or share important and simple decisions, such as choosing a summer vacation spot, a mother's day gift or changing a car. Even if one is not convinced, the other tries to please and talk to him until reaching the desired decision in it.

After giving birth and passing through many years, the couple loses the ability to negotiate and differ in most things, even the simplest. For example, planning a weekend is difficult, they never agree, he wants something and wants something else, and the children want something else.

2. Leisure times

Always, the couple starts their lives, each trying to satisfy the other and making a lot of effort to make him happy. For example, most of the newlyweds spend the day sleeping until noon, then eat food, watch television, and spend the evening at home or outside.

In times of entertainment, they always try to find something new, like going to a party or going out with friends. Usually these friends are also without children, because those with children do not have the right time to go out and it is difficult to coordinate with them to meet them.

After childbearing, it's time to spend time enjoying friends' birthday parties, performing a children's school activity or watching a cartoon movie with them. These are fun when the family meets them, but often the mother is the co-parent. He chooses other means, away from the family atmosphere to enjoy the leisure time.

3. Dialogue and discussion

At the beginning of the marriage, the couple enjoys talking to each other, discussing many things and talking about everything from political discussions to commenting on the latest popular songs, discussing work and home problems as well.

But after childbearing, it may reach the lack of dialogue from the basis of only some of the conversations about the requirements of children and the home or complain wife to the husband not to examine their son well or cross the husband angrily not to feel the cleanliness of the house and so on.

4. Romance

One of the most important aspects of a marriage is maintaining the romantic relationship between the couple. The romantic relationship and the emotional moments soon end. At the beginning of the marriage, romance is at its peak. They prefer to spend time together in a romantic dinner in a restaurant or night On candle lights.

As the years go by, there are few emotional moments that make romance, such as momentary handshake when watching a movie, before children cry for their desire to go to the bathroom, take one of their favorite dishes together, or steal an hour to become alone after a child's sleep .

5. Love

In the past, the wife loved her husband, but now she loves the father of her children, who is involved in this adventure called "parenting". She has become loving him differently when she sees him. Their children, play with them, care about their affairs, and work hard to provide them with good living.

This is not the worst, since the basis of married life is understanding, affection, participation and respect. The couple must try to preserve these principles, So that their marital relationship remains good and continuous and does not turn into an undesirable path.

The world's most famous marriage advisers have agreed on a list of some of the bad habits of husbands, which may be a major cause of the destruction of their marriage.

Try changing the other:

Do not build hopes in changing your partner after marriage, and make your effort to accept your partner, just as he does with you. Whatever you do, you are two different personalities in the end, and no one changes easily. If you change, it will be his will, not the result of pressure from his partner. , This habit of the most common habits that cause failure in the understanding and harmony between the spouses, End.

Refraining from intimacy as a means of punishing the other:

This is why it is a catastrophic reason, and often many women resort to it to try to pressure their husbands when a problem occurs between them. Even if the husband responds once or twice, he will not respond again, and the relationship between you will turn into a state of apathy. , Put intimacy away from any problem, even if you are not in a position to allow yourself to be with your partner, do not use it to come to you and end the problem.

Giving smartphones (mobile, tablet, or laptop) more importance than your partner:

And here comes the habit of most men in our time, most of their time at home carrying their smart phones and busy anything away from the wife and children, and this is one of the biggest reasons for the anger of wives and the constant complaint of their husband's lack of interest in them and children also, there is no justification at all if The wife is preoccupied with the children to pay attention to her husband to his smart phone, but it is her participation in raising children and bear some of the responsibilities, and this will be a key factor in strengthening the marital relationship.

Reply the blame in a ridiculous way:

"You did not call Papa and Mama for a long time," says the husband. "You also did not call Mama only once for a month." Blum's similar accusation makes your wife or husband unwilling to blame you for something. Again, that is, he has become indifferent to your actions, and this is the first path of frivolity between the couple, and can arrive to destroy the love and affection in their hearts.

In anger .. Do not try to solve the problem:

Many couples fall into this trap. When a problem occurs between them, one of the parties tries to solve the problem immediately, while they are angry at each other. Of course, this will only come with more anger and discontent on the other side. Neither side can solve the problem this way.

When there is a big problem between you, you have to stay away until you calm down and continue talking after a while.

Do not take responsibility for your mistakes:

When you sin against your partner, recognize your mistake and do not take you arrogance or arrogance, away from the culture of apology and recognition, as is the case for your partner. Marital life is tight and attractive, and can not be based on the concession of one party only.

Comparison:

The comparison begins when one of the parties refuses to do the other. For example, when a husband is dissatisfied with his wife's way of spending money, he compares it to one of his relatives or mother, and this way of rejecting your partner's behavior is the shortest way to marital failure.

Do not compare your husband to anyone else, nor compare your wife to anyone.

Stop the quarrel:

Yes, what you read is true. When the couple stops quarreling, the relationship between them dies slowly. There are no identical couples, so there is no disagreement between them. Rather, stopping the discussions and arguments is the biggest evidence of a cold in the relationship and the indifference of the parties to each other. It matters what the other party does!